Finding wedding vendors who are actually comfortable working with LGBTQ+ couples should not feel like a second planning job. You are already choosing a venue, building a timeline, figuring out guest lists, comparing packages, and trying to make your wedding feel like yours. You should not also have to decode whether a vendor is going to be respectful, inclusive, or weirdly awkward the second you mention your partner, your pronouns, your chosen family, or the traditions you are skipping completely.
This guide is a starting point for LGBTQ+ friendly and affirming wedding vendors in North Carolina, including venues, photographers, videographers, planners, florists, officiants, beauty teams, DJs, and other wedding pros who may be a good fit for queer couples, nontraditional weddings, nonreligious ceremonies, and couples who want their day to feel personal instead of performative.
Alex Faye Media is a Raleigh-based wedding photography and videography brand documenting LGBTQ+, nontraditional, and personality-filled weddings across North Carolina. This list is not meant to be a giant impersonal directory. It is meant to be a practical resource for couples who want vendors who can show up, do their job well, and treat their relationship like it belongs in the room without making it a whole production.
 
Photo + Video Teams
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Officiants
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Planning + Coordination
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Beauty
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Venues
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
DJ + Entertainment
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Florals + Decor + Rentals
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Travel + Destination
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Bar + Catering